| What is change? The Merriam dictionary defines | | | | change. |
| change as: | | | | Consider this - there are men sitting and watching |
| Entry Word: change | | | | and waiting to see what women do everyday. There |
| Function: noun | | | | are men who sit and watch what women do with |
| Text: the act, process, or result of making different | | | | media information and there will be men watching |
| Synonyms alteration, difference, modification, redoing, | | | | what women will do after reading this book. Many of |
| refashioning, remaking, remodeling, revamping, revise, | | | | you may say that's ok. We expect men to question |
| revision, reworking, variation | | | | our view and we expect men to be interested in |
| Related Words amendment, correction, rectification; | | | | what women think. We expect men to wonder what |
| conversion, deformation, distortion, metamorphosis, | | | | we will do after reading this book. Fine! Everything is |
| mutation, transfiguration, transformation; fluctuation, | | | | going well. But consider this. The men who are sitting |
| oscillation, shift; displacement, replacement, | | | | and watching and waiting to see what women do |
| substitution; adjustment, modulation, | | | | every day or what women will do after reading this |
| So we see from the Merriam dictionary change is a | | | | book are sexual predators, murderers and rapists. |
| transformation. A person goes from one state of | | | | Now what is your response? Oh, your response is |
| rest or existence to another state of rest or | | | | "What do sexual predators care what women do? |
| existence. Presumably if one has arms, legs, eyes, | | | | Sexual predators vote. Did it not occur to you that |
| ears all the rudiments for action one can make a | | | | rapists and sexual offenders vote they can also be |
| change. But actually change does not involve the | | | | jurors? These men are only excluded from voting if |
| arms, legs, eyes or ears change involves the mind. | | | | the laws of their states specify they are excluded |
| After a change has taken place, these appendices | | | | from voting and that is only if these men have been |
| may be engaged but they have little to do with an | | | | incarcerated. Not all sexual predators have been |
| actual change in behavior or thought pattern. Change | | | | incarcerated. |
| involves developing a specific attitude, a specific way | | | | Not all sexual predators are in prison. We shall prove |
| of talking, a specific way of walking and a specific | | | | this assertion in Volume Three of Do This In |
| way of viewing the world around you. Change | | | | Remembrance of Me. There are sexual predators in |
| involves seeing yourself at the helm, in command | | | | all walks of life participating in every profession. |
| (self visualization), telling yourself and others what | | | | There are medical doctors who are sexual predators |
| you will and will not do. Change involves | | | | and there are newscasters that are sexual predators. |
| concentration, determination and will power. Change | | | | Who do you think are the consumers of the young |
| involves engaging the psyche the real you. For | | | | children and foreign women exploited in this country? |
| change to take place one must get in touch with the | | | | These men are sitting quietly watching what women |
| person that is deep within; the person we all call the | | | | do. They know more about what women do than |
| 'real you." Modifications are made internally then | | | | you do. Sexual predators have one goal and that is |
| change is seen by the world. Although the Merriam | | | | the humiliation and the consumption of women. |
| dictionary defines change it does not tell us how to | | | | Anything that impedes that goal has to be thwarted. |
| change. The dictionary does not tell us how to get | | | | They are watchers of women. Now we have a |
| from point A to point B successful. What do we | | | | question for you. How many rapist, molesters and |
| have to do to change a facet of our lives? How is | | | | sexual predators do you think are living in this |
| change accomplished? | | | | country? Do you have any idea? What if we say |
| In order to make a change you need tools. You need | | | | there are well over 3 million sexual abusers in this |
| a set of unique tools that when applied to your | | | | country? Now what is your response? We are not |
| psyche you will not only change your thought pattern | | | | talking about batterers we say there are over 3 |
| but you will remain motivated to change regardless | | | | million sexual abusers in this country and they are not |
| of what is occurring around you. The tools you need | | | | all incarcerated. In Volume Three, The Career Rapist, |
| to make a change to your psyche are not physical | | | | we shall prove to you that not all sexual predators |
| tools they are metaphysical tools. This point should | | | | are in prison many are living next door to you, some |
| be made clear it is the essence of change. Change | | | | of them are living in your home and some of them |
| must take place in the mind before that change can | | | | are your employer. Think for a second, remember |
| take place in reality. The tools you use to enforce a | | | | that young woman who was raped in fraternity |
| change in your life are those tools developed during | | | | house so many years ago. Who do you think raped |
| maturation, adversity and contentment. | | | | her and what do you think happened to the man |
| Consequently, if you did not develop the necessary | | | | who raped her? He received his degree. He probably |
| tools during these periods you will be deficient when | | | | got a masters. The man who raped that young |
| it comes to making changes in your life. You may | | | | woman was hired by one of the Fortune 500 |
| have to make adjustments in your life to implant the | | | | companies and is now working an excellent job. Do |
| metaphysical tools you need so that you can make | | | | you think he mended his ways? Connect the dots. |
| the required changes that you believe you need to | | | | What better way to impede the progress of women |
| make as you progress through life. Most assuredly | | | | than voting against women? Women are being |
| these tools can be implanted through reading and | | | | murdered in this country every day. All the Institute |
| rehearsing. Repetition is vital when seeking to change | | | | is saying is women can reduce this violence by 30% |
| resistant behaviors, behaviors that have plagued you | | | | by changing. Unless you want to find yourself in a |
| for a long time. Just because you are deficient of | | | | wooded area with a man standing over you shoving |
| certain metaphysical tools and did not develop these | | | | his penis down your throat then you must change. |
| tools during maturation learning is still possible it just | | | | Do not delude yourself thinking these things happen |
| requires a desire supported by an indomitable will. The | | | | to somebody else. Murder can happen to any |
| world will tell you that there is no indomitable will. You | | | | woman, anywhere, at any time. Murder can happen |
| must resign yourself to whatever comes your way. | | | | to all women. One rapist we studied carried a sack of |
| Eat, smoke drink and be happy. How can you | | | | bricks around and used those bricks to bash the |
| possibly make a difference? You are to finish your | | | | heads in of his victims. He was a slight man. |
| days filled with rage thinking how could life be so | | | | Apparently, he doubted his physical strength so he |
| unfair? If you look at the lives of Cardinal Mundelein | | | | used the bricks to subdue his victims. Another rapist |
| and Nelson Mandela and others men and women cut | | | | rode around the city on a bicycle carrying a plastic |
| from the same cloth, you will see indomitable wills are | | | | container of gasoline on the handle bars of his bike. |
| possible even in ordinary circumstances. Men and | | | | After he raped and murdered his victims he used the |
| women become extraordinary by just saying no and | | | | gasoline to destroy any evidence. He raped and |
| digging in for the backlash. | | | | murdered four women between September 9, 1995 |
| Imagine you are over weight. You have decided to | | | | and March 27, 1996. While the police were looking for |
| lose weight. You are sitting at the lunch table and | | | | him he was riding around the neighborhood on his |
| your girlfriend is eating a Twinkie and she offers you | | | | bike in plain site. |
| one. What do you do? What tool do you use to | | | | Between December 13, 1937 and February 1938 |
| remain on course to do what you said you were | | | | thousands of Chinese women were raped during the |
| going to do regardless of what is occurring around | | | | occupation by Japan. Between 300,000 to 500, 000 |
| you? One of the tools you may use in this situation is | | | | women and children were rape and murdered. Their |
| determination (developed during adversity). You may | | | | bodies were buried, burned or thrown in the Yangtze |
| call upon your determination to over come your | | | | River. The Japanese did not have the crematoriums |
| desire for that Twinkie. The determination will make | | | | like the Germans. In Korea over 30,000 women were |
| you recall how you hate going to the dress store not | | | | taken by Japanese soldiers. They were called |
| finding anything to wear or how bad you feel when | | | | comfort women. Image! In Rwanda from 250,000 to |
| you husband takes you out to dinner and you are | | | | 500,000 Tutsi women were raped, massacred and |
| afraid to see a baked potato. Another tool you may | | | | subjected to other brutalities. Sexual violence against |
| call upon is ostracism. You may decide to find another | | | | women is a favorite tool of men. The link between |
| best girlfriend, one who has your best interest in | | | | the gender-based hate and sexual violence is clear. |
| heart; a best girlfriend that would never offer you a | | | | This is why Donald Fell,20, of Vermont murdered his |
| Twinkie to eat. | | | | mother, Debra Fell, and Terry King, 53. Both ethnic |
| Now that we know a substantial part of change | | | | and gender stereotypes, functioning individually and |
| involve non physical tools we need to identify these | | | | jointly, fuels sexual violence and no woman is immune |
| tools so that they can be developed and used when | | | | to this type of violence. America is importing men |
| we seek to change. So our problem now turns into | | | | from all around the world (Sarah Yaser Said, 17, and |
| the problem of how do we identify and develop | | | | Amina Yaser Said, 18, 2008, Texas) who participated |
| these non physical tools and how can we keep them | | | | in sexual and gender violence in their country as a |
| sharpen for use at all times? | | | | way of life (Shahpara Sayeed, 2000 Illinois). Do you |
| Seven of the tools we speak of are described in | | | | think these men are going to act any differently |
| Chapter 13, Preventing Violence Against Women, in | | | | once they land on our soil or are allowed to vote. |
| Volume Two Part Two, Murder in The Family, of the | | | | Just who do you think are raping the young women |
| series Do This In Remembrance of Me. | | | | along the Juarez Mexico border? This area is a regular |
| The following is an excerpt from that chapter. | | | | feeding ground for these men. Could it not be that |
| "If you do what you have always done. You will | | | | the men who are coming to this country now are |
| always be what youhave always been. Pastor T. D. | | | | not coming from freedom or even the respect of |
| Jakes, 1996 | | | | freedom, they are merely coming because they can |
| ………. Women must change. | | | | make money. And when they come they import their |
| Yes, there are particular areas where the violence will | | | | morals and values that have nothing to do with the |
| be reduced but these areas are not the focus of | | | | American way. Take a look around you ladies only |
| what we are saying. What we are saying is women | | | | the Marines fight for freedom the rest of the fighting |
| must change. Please read out loud the quote of | | | | in the world involves servitude. |
| Pastor T. D. Jakes. "If you do what you have always | | | | Niger men routinely raped and beat their wives and |
| done. You will always be what you have always | | | | sisters. If a man will rape and beat his sister in Niger, |
| been. Say it again. If you do what you have always | | | | do you think he forgets this practice once he arrives |
| done. You will always be what you have always | | | | on American soil?" Do you think they say, "I will no |
| been. Now substitute the word I for the word you in | | | | longer be a rapist once I become an American citizen |
| the quote. If I do what I have always done. I will | | | | because Americans believe in the rights of women?" |
| always be what I have always been. Do see what | | | | Did you know some Haitians and Africans have |
| we are saying. Say it again. If I do what I have | | | | imported children to this country and the children |
| always done. I will always be what I have always | | | | have been used as slaves? Imagine importing slave |
| been. We are saying women can reduce the violence | | | | to America after Americans fought one of the |
| against women by 30% if women change. We are | | | | largest wars over slavery. Is that not a slap in the |
| not saying women should make a particular change. | | | | face? Is that not the biggest insult to Arlington |
| We are saying women must change. In order to | | | | Cemetery and Bunker Hill Forcing a woman to have |
| prevent violence against women, women must | | | | sex against her will (rape) is not even a crime in |
| CHANGE. Women must evolve. | | | | some countries. Need sex just rape your sister or |
| Now many of you are saying this statement is | | | | cousin? If she resist, kill her (Mwivano Mwambashi |
| ludicrous. How are we to change? What are we to | | | | Kupaza, Wisconsin, circa1999). Mrs. Peter Kupaza left |
| change? A person cannot change unless he or she | | | | her husband after she learned he forced his cousin, |
| knows what they are going to change about | | | | Mwivano Mwambashi Kupaza, to get an abortion |
| themselves. These people sound stupid. They say | | | | because he impregnated her. When Mwivano |
| 30% of the violence against women can be reduced | | | | Mwambashi Kupaza resisted having sex again Peter |
| if women change but they don't say what areas | | | | Kupaza killed her and distributed her body parts in six |
| women are to change. We say women must change. | | | | garbage bags. In 2000 he had the unmitigated gall to |
| We can provide you with a list of situations that will | | | | stand up in court with his ugly self and cry telling the |
| be improved when you change. But these situations | | | | court he did not kill his cousin. Image! You could tell |
| will be the result of your change. If we said to you, | | | | he was the runt of the litter. Was he not a rapist |
| you must loose weight that would be acceptable | | | | ladies? The Sauk County Sheriff's Department is sent |
| because you feel weight is one of the problems you | | | | an honor guard to Miss Mwivano Kupaza's funeral. |
| have. If we said to you, you need to wear more | | | | Do you really believe rapist become inactive after |
| make up that would also be acceptable because you | | | | you turn the television off. We are at war ladies. We |
| may feel you could be more attractive using makeup. | | | | are in the same position we were in the 1920"s |
| But when we say you must change you because | | | | except now we have an entire industry dedicated |
| agitated. You are not comfortable. You are in | | | | (television) to turning women in to empty headed, |
| unfamiliar territory. The scope is too broad you do | | | | sex objects. You must change. After you change we |
| not feel sure of yourself. Things must stay the same | | | | want you to write Congress, (all members) and |
| with just a little modification. To go beyond normal | | | | demand that they increase the budget to the U.S. |
| modifications is uncomfortable. | | | | Justice Department. Tell them you want 100 FBI |
| No one just changes. Who changes themselves on | | | | agents hired in each state and you want these |
| command? Changes are made incrementally small | | | | agents dedicated to irradiating fraud and sexual and |
| adjustments over time. Everywhere you look there | | | | gender violence against women and children. Please |
| are crutches to change. If you want to stop smoking | | | | write ladies. We want 100 FBI agents per state. |
| purchase a nicotine gum. If you want to lose weight | | | | Forcing a woman into sexual slavery is a violation of |
| purchase a diet supplement. People are taught they | | | | her constitutional rights which in many cases causes |
| have to use something outside them selves to aid | | | | prostitution to become a federal crime not a state |
| them in changing. In other words people cannot | | | | crime (where it is often swept under the rug). We |
| change without the help of someone else or | | | | want the pimps incarcerated never to be seen again. |
| something else. People are impeded from changing | | | | It is FBI mission to uphold the law through |
| because they are conditioned to believe changing is | | | | investigation of violations of federal criminal law; to |
| difficult based on someone else's experience and our | | | | protect the United States from foreign intelligence |
| failures are reinforced in comparison, yet when | | | | and terrorist activities; and to provide leadership and |
| mankind is faced with danger mankind changes. | | | | law enforcement assistance to federal, state, local, |
| Danger is now staring women of this country in the | | | | and international agencies, insure the safety and |
| face and women must change. Children are being | | | | security of the citizens of the United States. Do not |
| abducted from their homes. Children are being | | | | take no for an answer ladies. You have more power |
| abducted while playing and the sex offenders are not | | | | than you think. Never let someone tell you what you |
| afraid of being caught. Sex offenders are also | | | | can and cannot do. Now we would like for you to go |
| entering homes raping and killing women. Hunting | | | | into your bathroom where the light is the harshest |
| women has become a sport. What we are saying is | | | | and stand before the mirror and look at yourself. |
| note your behavior and change. Once you grasp this | | | | When you finish looking at yourself, we want you to |
| concept then you will understand what we mean | | | | start your quest to change. Your mirror conversation |
| when we say women must change. When this | | | | is for you and no one else. |
| country went to war with Japan and Germany, | | | | ****** |
| women changed. There were no crutches women | | | | Excerpt from Murder In The Family, ©2008 |
| changed. They stepped up to the plate and changed. | | | | Touched By The Light Publishing. All Rights Reserved. |
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| children are now endangered so women must | | | | |