| What is change? The Merriam dictionary | | | | Germany, women changed. There were no |
| defines change as: | | | | crutches women changed. They stepped up to |
| | | | the plate and changed. The country was at |
| Entry Word: change | | | | war so women changed. Our children are now |
| | | | endangered so women must change. |
| Function: noun | | | | |
| | | | Consider this - there are men sitting and |
| Text: the act, process, or result of making | | | | watching and waiting to see what women do |
| different | | | | everyday. There are men who sit and watch |
| | | | what women do with media information and |
| Synonyms alteration, difference, | | | | there will be men watching what women will do |
| modification, redoing, refashioning, | | | | after reading this book. Many of you may say |
| remaking, remodeling, revamping, revise, | | | | that's ok. We expect men to question our |
| revision, reworking, variation | | | | view and we expect men to be interested in |
| | | | what women think. We expect men to wonder |
| Related Words amendment, correction, | | | | what we will do after reading this book. |
| rectification; conversion, deformation, | | | | Fine! Everything is going well. But |
| distortion, metamorphosis, mutation, | | | | consider this. The men who are sitting and |
| transfiguration, transformation; fluctuation, | | | | watching and waiting to see what women do |
| oscillation, shift; displacement, | | | | every day or what women will do after reading |
| replacement, substitution; adjustment, | | | | this book are sexual predators, murderers and |
| modulation, | | | | rapists. Now what is your response? Oh, |
| | | | your response is "What do sexual predators |
| So we see from the Merriam dictionary change | | | | care what women do? Sexual predators vote. |
| is a transformation. A person goes from one | | | | Did it not occur to you that rapists and |
| state of rest or existence to another state | | | | sexual offenders vote they can also be |
| of rest or existence. Presumably if one has | | | | jurors? These men are only excluded from |
| arms, legs, eyes, ears all the rudiments for | | | | voting if the laws of their states specify |
| action one can make a change. But actually | | | | they are excluded from voting and that is |
| change does not involve the arms, legs, eyes | | | | only if these men have been incarcerated. |
| or ears change involves the mind. After a | | | | Not all sexual predators have been |
| change has taken place, these appendices may | | | | incarcerated. |
| be engaged but they have little to do with an | | | | |
| actual change in behavior or thought pattern. | | | | Not all sexual predators are in prison. We |
| Change involves developing a specific | | | | shall prove this assertion in Volume Three of |
| attitude, a specific way of talking, a | | | | Do This In Remembrance of Me. There are |
| specific way of walking and a specific way of | | | | sexual predators in all walks of life |
| viewing the world around you. Change | | | | participating in every profession. There are |
| involves seeing yourself at the helm, in | | | | medical doctors who are sexual predators and |
| command (self visualization), telling | | | | there are newscasters that are sexual |
| yourself and others what you will and will | | | | predators. Who do you think are the |
| not do. Change involves concentration, | | | | consumers of the young children and foreign |
| determination and will power. Change | | | | women exploited in this country? These men |
| involves engaging the psyche the real you. | | | | are sitting quietly watching what women do. |
| For change to take place one must get in | | | | They know more about what women do than you |
| touch with the person that is deep within; | | | | do. Sexual predators have one goal and that |
| the person we all call the 'real you." | | | | is the humiliation and the consumption of |
| Modifications are made internally then change | | | | women. Anything that impedes that goal has |
| is seen by the world. Although the Merriam | | | | to be thwarted. They are watchers of women. |
| dictionary defines change it does not tell us | | | | Now we have a question for you. How many |
| how to change. The dictionary does not tell | | | | rapist, molesters and sexual predators do you |
| us how to get from point A to point B | | | | think are living in this country? Do you |
| successful. What do we have to do to change | | | | have any idea? What if we say there are |
| a facet of our lives? How is change | | | | well over 3 million sexual abusers in this |
| accomplished? | | | | country? Now what is your response? We are |
| | | | not talking about batterers we say there are |
| In order to make a change you need tools. | | | | over 3 million sexual abusers in this country |
| You need a set of unique tools that when | | | | and they are not all incarcerated. In Volume |
| applied to your psyche you will not only | | | | Three, The Career Rapist, we shall prove to |
| change your thought pattern but you will | | | | you that not all sexual predators are in |
| remain motivated to change regardless of what | | | | prison many are living next door to you, some |
| is occurring around you. The tools you need | | | | of them are living in your home and some of |
| to make a change to your psyche are not | | | | them are your employer. Think for a second, |
| physical tools they are metaphysical tools. | | | | remember that young woman who was raped in |
| This point should be made clear it is the | | | | fraternity house so many years ago. Who do |
| essence of change. Change must take place in | | | | you think raped her and what do you think |
| the mind before that change can take place in | | | | happened to the man who raped her? He |
| reality. The tools you use to enforce a | | | | received his degree. He probably got a |
| change in your life are those tools developed | | | | masters. The man who raped that young woman |
| during maturation, adversity and contentment. | | | | was hired by one of the Fortune 500 companies |
| Consequently, if you did not develop the | | | | and is now working an excellent job. Do you |
| necessary tools during these periods you will | | | | think he mended his ways? Connect the dots. |
| be deficient when it comes to making changes | | | | |
| in your life. You may have to make | | | | What better way to impede the progress of |
| adjustments in your life to implant the | | | | women than voting against women? Women are |
| metaphysical tools you need so that you can | | | | being murdered in this country every day. |
| make the required changes that you believe | | | | All the Institute is saying is women can |
| you need to make as you progress through | | | | reduce this violence by 30% by changing. |
| life. Most assuredly these tools can be | | | | Unless you want to find yourself in a wooded |
| implanted through reading and rehearsing. | | | | area with a man standing over you shoving his |
| Repetition is vital when seeking to change | | | | penis down your throat then you must change. |
| resistant behaviors, behaviors that have | | | | Do not delude yourself thinking these things |
| plagued you for a long time. Just because | | | | happen to somebody else. Murder can happen |
| you are deficient of certain metaphysical | | | | to any woman, anywhere, at any time. |
| tools and did not develop these tools during | | | | Murder can happen to all women. One rapist |
| maturation learning is still possible it just | | | | we studied carried a sack of bricks around |
| requires a desire supported by an indomitable | | | | and used those bricks to bash the heads in of |
| will. The world will tell you that there is | | | | his victims. He was a slight man. |
| no indomitable will. You must resign | | | | Apparently, he doubted his physical strength |
| yourself to whatever comes your way. Eat, | | | | so he used the bricks to subdue his victims. |
| smoke drink and be happy. How can you | | | | Another rapist rode around the city on a |
| possibly make a difference? You are to | | | | bicycle carrying a plastic container of |
| finish your days filled with rage thinking | | | | gasoline on the handle bars of his bike. |
| how could life be so unfair? If you look at | | | | After he raped and murdered his victims he |
| the lives of Cardinal Mundelein and Nelson | | | | used the gasoline to destroy any evidence. |
| Mandela and others men and women cut from the | | | | He raped and murdered four women between |
| same cloth, you will see indomitable wills | | | | September 9, 1995 and March 27, 1996. While |
| are possible even in ordinary circumstances. | | | | the police were looking for him he was riding |
| Men and women become extraordinary by just | | | | around the neighborhood on his bike in plain |
| saying no and digging in for the backlash. | | | | site. |
| | | | |
| Imagine you are over weight. You have | | | | Between December 13, 1937 and February 1938 |
| decided to lose weight. You are sitting at | | | | thousands of Chinese women were raped during |
| the lunch table and your girlfriend is eating | | | | the occupation by Japan. Between 300,000 to |
| a Twinkie and she offers you one. What do | | | | 500, 000 women and children were rape and |
| you do? What tool do you use to remain on | | | | murdered. Their bodies were buried, burned |
| course to do what you said you were going to | | | | or thrown in the Yangtze River. The Japanese |
| do regardless of what is occurring around | | | | did not have the crematoriums like the |
| you? One of the tools you may use in this | | | | Germans. In Korea over 30,000 women were |
| situation is determination (developed during | | | | taken by Japanese soldiers. They were called |
| adversity). You may call upon your | | | | comfort women. Image! In Rwanda from |
| determination to over come your desire for | | | | 250,000 to 500,000 Tutsi women were raped, |
| that Twinkie. The determination will make | | | | massacred and subjected to other brutalities. |
| you recall how you hate going to the dress | | | | Sexual violence against women is a favorite |
| store not finding anything to wear or how bad | | | | tool of men. The link between the |
| you feel when you husband takes you out to | | | | gender-based hate and sexual violence is |
| dinner and you are afraid to see a baked | | | | clear. This is why Donald Fell,20, of |
| potato. Another tool you may call upon is | | | | Vermont murdered his mother, Debra Fell, and |
| ostracism. You may decide to find another | | | | Terry King, 53. Both ethnic and gender |
| best girlfriend, one who has your best | | | | stereotypes, functioning individually and |
| interest in heart; a best girlfriend that | | | | jointly, fuels sexual violence and no woman |
| would never offer you a Twinkie to eat. | | | | is immune to this type of violence. America |
| | | | is importing men from all around the world |
| Now that we know a substantial part of change | | | | (Sarah Yaser Said, 17, and Amina Yaser Said, |
| involve non physical tools we need to | | | | 18, 2008, Texas) who participated in sexual |
| identify these tools so that they can be | | | | and gender violence in their country as a way |
| developed and used when we seek to change. | | | | of life (Shahpara Sayeed, 2000 Illinois). Do |
| So our problem now turns into the problem of | | | | you think these men are going to act any |
| how do we identify and develop these non | | | | differently once they land on our soil or are |
| physical tools and how can we keep them | | | | allowed to vote. Just who do you think are |
| sharpen for use at all times? | | | | raping the young women along the Juarez |
| | | | Mexico border? This area is a regular |
| Seven of the tools we speak of are described | | | | feeding ground for these men. Could it not |
| in Chapter 13, Preventing Violence Against | | | | be that the men who are coming to this |
| Women, in Volume Two Part Two, Murder in The | | | | country now are not coming from freedom or |
| Family, of the series Do This In Remembrance | | | | even the respect of freedom, they are merely |
| of Me. | | | | coming because they can make money. And when |
| | | | they come they import their morals and values |
| The following is an excerpt from that | | | | that have nothing to do with the American |
| chapter. | | | | way. Take a look around you ladies only the |
| | | | Marines fight for freedom the rest of the |
| "If you do what you have always done. You | | | | fighting in the world involves servitude. |
| will always be what youhave always been. | | | | |
| Pastor T. D. Jakes, 1996 | | | | Niger men routinely raped and beat their |
| | | | wives and sisters. If a man will rape and |
| ………. Women must change. | | | | beat his sister in Niger, do you think he |
| Yes, there are particular areas where the | | | | forgets this practice once he arrives on |
| violence will be reduced but these areas are | | | | American soil?" Do you think they say, "I |
| not the focus of what we are saying. What we | | | | will no longer be a rapist once I become an |
| are saying is women must change. Please | | | | American citizen because Americans believe in |
| read out loud the quote of Pastor T. D. | | | | the rights of women?" Did you know some |
| Jakes. "If you do what you have always | | | | Haitians and Africans have imported children |
| done. You will always be what you have | | | | to this country and the children have been |
| always been. Say it again. If you do what | | | | used as slaves? Imagine importing slave to |
| you have always done. You will always be | | | | America after Americans fought one of the |
| what you have always been. Now substitute | | | | largest wars over slavery. Is that not a |
| the word I for the word you in the quote. If | | | | slap in the face? Is that not the biggest |
| I do what I have always done. I will always | | | | insult to Arlington Cemetery and Bunker Hill |
| be what I have always been. Do see what we | | | | Forcing a woman to have sex against her will |
| are saying. Say it again. If I do what I | | | | (rape) is not even a crime in some countries. |
| have always done. I will always be what I | | | | Need sex just rape your sister or cousin? |
| have always been. We are saying women can | | | | If she resist, kill her (Mwivano Mwambashi |
| reduce the violence against women by 30% if | | | | Kupaza, Wisconsin, circa1999). Mrs. Peter |
| women change. We are not saying women should | | | | Kupaza left her husband after she learned he |
| make a particular change. We are saying | | | | forced his cousin, Mwivano Mwambashi Kupaza, |
| women must change. In order to prevent | | | | to get an abortion because he impregnated |
| violence against women, women must CHANGE. | | | | her. When Mwivano Mwambashi Kupaza resisted |
| Women must evolve. | | | | having sex again Peter Kupaza killed her and |
| | | | distributed her body parts in six garbage |
| Now many of you are saying this statement is | | | | bags. In 2000 he had the unmitigated gall to |
| ludicrous. How are we to change? What are | | | | stand up in court with his ugly self and cry |
| we to change? A person cannot change unless | | | | telling the court he did not kill his cousin. |
| he or she knows what they are going to change | | | | Image! You could tell he was the runt of |
| about themselves. These people sound stupid. | | | | the litter. Was he not a rapist ladies? The |
| They say 30% of the violence against women | | | | Sauk County Sheriff's Department is sent an |
| can be reduced if women change but they don't | | | | honor guard to Miss Mwivano Kupaza's funeral. |
| say what areas women are to change. We say | | | | |
| women must change. We can provide you with a | | | | Do you really believe rapist become inactive |
| list of situations that will be improved when | | | | after you turn the television off. We are |
| you change. But these situations will be the | | | | at war ladies. We are in the same position |
| result of your change. If we said to you, | | | | we were in the 1920"s except now we have an |
| you must loose weight that would be | | | | entire industry dedicated (television) to |
| acceptable because you feel weight is one of | | | | turning women in to empty headed, sex |
| the problems you have. If we said to you, | | | | objects. You must change. After you change |
| you need to wear more make up that would also | | | | we want you to write Congress, (all members) |
| be acceptable because you may feel you could | | | | and demand that they increase the budget to |
| be more attractive using makeup. But when we | | | | the U.S. Justice Department. Tell them you |
| say you must change you because agitated. | | | | want 100 FBI agents hired in each state and |
| You are not comfortable. You are in | | | | you want these agents dedicated to |
| unfamiliar territory. The scope is too broad | | | | irradiating fraud and sexual and gender |
| you do not feel sure of yourself. Things | | | | violence against women and children. Please |
| must stay the same with just a little | | | | write ladies. We want 100 FBI agents per |
| modification. To go beyond normal | | | | state. Forcing a woman into sexual slavery |
| modifications is uncomfortable. | | | | is a violation of her constitutional rights |
| | | | which in many cases causes prostitution to |
| No one just changes. Who changes themselves | | | | become a federal crime not a state crime |
| on command? Changes are made incrementally | | | | (where it is often swept under the rug). We |
| small adjustments over time. Everywhere you | | | | want the pimps incarcerated never to be seen |
| look there are crutches to change. If you | | | | again. It is FBI mission to uphold the law |
| want to stop smoking purchase a nicotine gum. | | | | through investigation of violations of |
| If you want to lose weight purchase a diet | | | | federal criminal law; to protect the United |
| supplement. People are taught they have to | | | | States from foreign intelligence and |
| use something outside them selves to aid them | | | | terrorist activities; and to provide |
| in changing. In other words people cannot | | | | leadership and law enforcement assistance to |
| change without the help of someone else or | | | | federal, state, local, and international |
| something else. People are impeded from | | | | agencies, insure the safety and security of |
| changing because they are conditioned to | | | | the citizens of the United States. Do not |
| believe changing is difficult based on | | | | take no for an answer ladies. You have more |
| someone else's experience and our failures | | | | power than you think. Never let someone tell |
| are reinforced in comparison, yet when | | | | you what you can and cannot do. Now we would |
| mankind is faced with danger mankind changes. | | | | like for you to go into your bathroom where |
| Danger is now staring women of this country | | | | the light is the harshest and stand before |
| in the face and women must change. Children | | | | the mirror and look at yourself. When you |
| are being abducted from their homes. | | | | finish looking at yourself, we want you to |
| Children are being abducted while playing and | | | | start your quest to change. Your mirror |
| the sex offenders are not afraid of being | | | | conversation is for you and no one else. |
| caught. Sex offenders are also entering | | | | |
| homes raping and killing women. Hunting | | | | ****** |
| women has become a sport. What we are saying | | | | |
| is note your behavior and change. Once you | | | | Excerpt from Murder In The Family, ©2008 |
| grasp this concept then you will understand | | | | Touched By The Light Publishing. All Rights |
| what we mean when we say women must change. | | | | Reserved. Touched By The Light, Inc., P.O. |
| When this country went to war with Japan and | | | | |